SNAG

I've been curious about the relationship and sexual culture here lately.

Virtually every male friend I know

has had the pleasure of my probing questions.

"Do you go down on your girlfriends?"

"Do you like it? Or do you do it because she goes down on you?"

Recently i heard not one but a few Asian women

say that Asian men don't go down on their women.

Now, either they are hanging around the wrong men

or I've been pretty damn lucky.

And so I asked oh, maybe 10 men.

and yes they head south

yes, they like it

it gives them pleasure to give pleasure

its a turn on and an ego trip

when she's gripping his hair,

keeping from screaming out.

and these are men,

born and bred here

no, they haven't been off studying or gallivanting

(okay maybe a few have)

in some distant country

absorbing Western culture,

just Sensitive New Asian Guys.

One comeback I kept getting after asking the questions

was

"But some women don't like it"

How strange is that?

Have you ever heard of a man not liking a blow job?

If anything I think those women are

self-concious about that part of their body

how it looks and smells

but hell, they should be proud

why deny themselves the pleasure?

In so many cultures, the vagina is such a beautiful thing

yet and so many others

it is a cause of humiliation, degradation.

Its not dirty, your vagina.

And its going to be there your whole life

so no point pretending its not a part of you.

embrace it.

I've always been more partial towards

Caucasian men

Simply because most of them

are bigger,taller and more masculine

have squarer jawlines

(very 'man' man)

than our own

and me, well I like the idea of being protected by a solid slab of man

But I've had my fair share of both

and our men aren't lacking

so don't knock em

it's not fair

cos there are so many great ones out there.