Ah Sweet Need

.Need.

Such a powerful emotion

An uber-strong tool, with wondrous results in the hands of the right person

Disastrous in the hands on the wrong.

Whats the difference between, want and need?

I want and Ipod.

I need coffee (or so I'd like to believe)

okay okay, I need to breathe to stay alive, lets say

There was a great debate yesterday, about relationships..or something

( come to think of it, I'm not sure how much it had to do with needs and wants)

anyway the convo, was

About hunting.

The thrill of the chase.

of baiting

and hooking

Until you know that you have that someone in your grasp

that you can twirl around your finger

that will drop anything for you if you so much as start to open your mouth to ask....

and then...

it just gets boring.

Any relationship, is a game,

you may claim that you don't play games, but honey, you already are.

And it's the way you play it, that will judge how long you stay in it.

As much as we'd like to not believe it, in most relationships, one person always has the upper hand, or it could be interchangeble between both.

One is a giver, the other a taker.

People in love, or infatuated, always tend to give in too much.

They make themselves too available, and thus the game is lost, for the other knows that they have you.

Has that happened to you before? One minute you had a person's complete attention and the next, it's gone?

Too much, too soon, too fast.

They know they've got you, so the thrill, the challenge, is gone.

Curb your hunger,love, need, your wanton lust.

Give in bits and pieces, always hold back, never give it all at once.

And your game will last longer.

The art is in always keeping people on their toes, always making them wonder.

That is of course until you guys pledge your undying love etc... then no need to play games already la.

God. I am becoming such a man.

But it is the hard truth of life. It happened to that girl in Hitch, and it was what Hitch tried to teach all those men, how to play the game right. Play it right and you hook for good. Play it wrong and you hook-up yes, but for how long?

Women need to be taught too.